the 30-day no-nag challenge
did I just nag?
them
last seen today at 19:42
I don't nag.
everyone, before day 1
A 30-day diary that shows you how you really talk to the person you love: what's worth saying, what's just your day, and how to say the important stuff so it actually lands. Funny on the outside. Eye-opening underneath.
launching November · iPhone & Android · waitlist gets a special launch offer
the funny thing is
Most of us are sure we don't nag. Then we start counting, and it's every day. Rarely about the dishes. Usually about missing time together, or a long day that needed somewhere to go.
We talk to our person in a way we'd never talk to a friend. 30 days of noticing it changes that.
him: doing my nailsme: "you missed a spot"quick, be honest: how many times a week do you nag?
what you get out of 30 days
know your topics
What keeps coming up, and why you bring it up. Usually it's two or three things wearing different outfits.
is it them, or your day?
Short night? Busy week? Day 24 of your cycle? You'll see in your own log when the nags pile up, and what was really going on.
say what matters, once
Fewer tiny nags, more real talks. 'I miss you' lands very differently from 'you're always late'.
get to know yourself
What needs saying, and what's yours to sort out. Small question after each log, big shift after 30 days.
sneak peek
the app, coming in November
day 12 of 30
4 nags this week
down from 7 last week
about to nag?
take 10 for you →
today's thank-you
they made coffee before I woke up
"love is friendship set on fire."
today's love quote
count it
today
log it · 21:14
what did you say?
"so you're coming home at 10 again?"
about
today was…
small question
what did you actually mean?
I miss you.
log it
what you said, and what was going on
take 10
your own reset.
7:42
you can still say it after
still want to say it? say the real thing.
take 10
your own reset
day 30 recap
I guessed 3 a week.
it was 14.
nags per week
top topics
coming home late · time together
nags piled up after short nights.
week 4 was my best yet.
see it
I guessed 3 a week. it was 14.
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how it works
1 · tiny nags
log what you said
2 · silent ones
the sigh counts too
3 · real talks
never break the streak
which one will you earn?
Personas are earned, never assigned.
The Ice Queen
7 days with silent ones
The Nagging Queen
7 nag days in a row
The Sigh Specialist
most sighs logged
The Dishwasher Detective
your top topic, 4+ times
The Zen Goddess
7 nag-free days
Golden Retriever Girlfriend
10 good moments logged
day 30: guess vs reality.
no lectures. no AI telling you how to love. you'll notice it yourself, and that's why it sticks.
I guessed 3 a week.
it was 14.
week 4 was my best yet.
it's not just you
and yes, they're getting one too.
Meet Pick Up Your Socks: a 30-day challenge for the mental load they didn't know existed. Every time they notice something before being asked, it counts. Booked the dentist. Spotted we're out of milk. Remembered your mum's birthday. Same tally, the other side.
coming after. with love.
him: bought the milk.without being asked.+1 noticed
tue · day 6 of 30
4 things you noticed yourself
nobody had to ask
the invisible list
- booked the dentist
- noticed we're out of milk
- remembered her mum's birthday
- socks: in the basket
- one open: the school form (she's asked twice)
2 more for the badge: Laundry Basket Sniper
day 0 starts here.
Join now and get a special launch offer that only the waitlist gets. Then answer a few quick questions, so your challenge is ready the moment we launch.
launching November · iPhone & Android
questions
is this just for women?
No. It's for anyone who nags. Which, after 30 days of counting, turns out to be everyone.
is this therapy?
No, it's a diary with a sense of humour. If something feels serious or unsafe, talk to someone you trust or a professional.
does my partner see it?
No. It's private, your diary only.
when does it launch?
November, on iPhone & Android.
what does it cost?
7 days free, then monthly or yearly. Waitlist people get a special launch offer.
30 days. one tally. how bad can it be?
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